DamienD

[Galahad/FLT]

Originally Posted by ross

eheh sure

You must be really a friend and in confidence to be able to say it.
Take it this way Damien!

^ what he said

[meynaf]

Originally Posted by malko

Some use it also in French...
... but prefer when it's not said to me

Google translate says "sac de billes" for ballbag.

[Ian]

Regardless, from what you said DD, you could do with some support on the mod team, so why not speak to RCK and get Galahad on the team, he's keen and here most of the time.

At least you won't have to do 90% of the work yourself.

[ReadOnlyCat]

Originally Posted by Galahad/FLT

If I may. I felt in a similar way a few years back, was going to turn my back on I place I call home because of the actions of one person.
[...]
You are allowing a person you likely dont know to decide for you what you do or dont do, and frankly, thats mental.

Sometimes shit happens, its out of our control, c'est la vie.

The Galahad kitten said it very nicely and concisely.

Feeling hurt is normal.
Anger makes us do stupid things in an attempt to regain control over a situation which escapes us. We only end up looking childish and foolish if we obey the impulse to strike back.

Just let the anger dissipate without acting on it.
After a while you will realize that this was not worth the high blood pressure.

Listen to your inner kitten, if you concentrate enough you'll hear her gentle purr inviting you to calm down peacefully without taking any decisions that you will regret later.