There is no "blame game" here, not from me anyway, reading your wall of text I see a lot of "let's blame Thomas Hirsch" stuff though... I was just stating what I think and what I experienced when I had to deal with a certain "interesting" person involved in the Natami project and I am neither talking about Thomas Hirsch nor you here which should have been clear anyway. And guess what, due to the behaviour of a certain individual I stayed away from the Natami forum and only checked it when I needed some good entertainment. There might be a reason why I have my opinion, dear "Team member".
And open source, as good as it may be, would not have helped when it comes to certain problems regarding the Natami but since all this is speculation anyway I won't comment on it anymore.