Thank you for writing this post. I don't think she sounds pathetic at all, who among us doesn't have demons to fight and who never had dark periods in his life? I don't know Moya personally, but I have been following her on Facebook and I've always thought she's a very sweet and obviously sensitive and fragile person. I'm sorry to hear about her troubles but at least as you say she's a little better now. I think it would be nice if you told her on behalf of us that we will all be here whenever she is ready to return.
And speaking as a past winner, I really don't care about my prize! I think I even said that to her before. I'm just happy she gave me the incentive to make a little game, one I play every Christmas period. She really must not loose any sleep over it.