Nintendo is applying a lot of censorship upon the titles released on their consoles ("quality control") so that's probably not where the real deal can be found.
Digital Devil Saga 1 & 2 were PS2 games and are more like
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, not exactly your average Final Fantasy tone.
About games and frustration there's amusing videos here: http://www.cinemassacre.com/category...vgn-2004-2006/