Things I installed.
Scalos - which has now solved all my problems but was a pain to install. Do not use Aminets version use the one from http://scalos.striatum.org/
ClassAct - needed to install NewIconsV4
IconImage - for copying icons.
Don't think I missed anything.
Have not been able to use OS3.5/GlowIcons only the converted AIAB ones for NewIcons. All I get with OS3.5 GlowIcons is a blank square. Sorry.